Saturday, February 16, 2019

February is for Fun and Shenanigans and Cruises

Let the Shenanigans Begin
February is fun around our house for many reasons.  Now that we have 2 children the same age again, we like to have a little fun.  It's almost as much shenanigans as April Fool's.  Every year from Feb. 1 until June 30, Stella and Samuel  are the same age.  When we get the twin question, we simply say “no, they’re 7 months apart.”  If we’re feeling feisty, we walk away and we can almost hear the math in their minds.  Sometimes it’s fun having 2 kiddos the same age and other times there’s a challenge. School has proven to be a tad harder because they’re both learning to read at the same time.  And by “tad”, I mean “quite a bit”.  They’re both making strides in reading because they’re super smart. Stella has struggled a little more, but we’re working on ways to help her more and build confidence.  

It’s the Day of Love and Creativity

I threatened to make Russ a shirt for next year!  Although the shirts didn’t hold us so well, the kids are still kind enough to wear my creations.  They let me help with their valentine’s too, although Samuel declared on 2/13 that he did not want people to see him as a snowman.  Ugh, we must work on timing next year!!  I put their little faces on a snowman and let them choose what the snowman would be holdling. Joey chose that his snowman would hold a book labeled “Warm and Peas”.  Samuel chose a lightsaber and no one is surprised.  Stella’s request was a bowl of Valentine food that looks like dog food. So, that’s what we did!  Funny thing is that we gave hot chocolate because it’s February and supposed to be cold.  BUT, in Texas sometimes you get a beautiful spring day in the middle of February. Hopefully our friends can hang on to their hot chocolate mix for just a few days until the winter weather returns!

Russ surprised me with some beautiful flowers and chocolate covered strawberries!!!  Yum!  He knows me well!  Because we were getting ready for a trip, our gift-giving was kind of thrown off schedule.   We shared gifts with each other a few days later.  The strawberries were well hidden so that we could enjoy them alone!  Joey and I had picked out a little Razorback wall décor while in Arkansas recently.  We figured it won’t hurt for Russ to remind his co-workers that he’s a Hog! The kiddos got heart decorated food in their lunch, which is probably way more fun for me to prepare than for them to eat.  I may have painted on their sandwich bread with food coloring and butter.  It may have gotten all over their hands at lunch.  Maybe. Ok, it did!  






I encouraged my parents to see each other on Valentine’s Day, which they did.  It was a quick visit for them, but it was good for them to see that the other is healthy and getting around well.  I took Mom to visit at Dad’s place.  One bonus to Spring in February is that we got to enjoy time outside in the garden. Mom had requested valentine gifts for the kids, so she and I had stopped by a store a few days earlier.  We got Dad a new basket shelf for his room for Valentine’s Day.  He likes to straighten up, so I thought a little shelf next to his chair might come in handy for magazines and snacks.  I try to keep things off the floor to avoid a tripping hazard, so it seemed like a perfect fit for his room.  Mom prefers pictures of the kids and snacks, so that’s what we got her this year. Both parents received cards and gifts from friends and family.  I sure hope everyone felt love!!

Heaven on Earth
We’ve had a few weeks of extreme trip planning!  Being away from home for more than 2 days Is quite the task by way of laundry and kid preparation.  Preparing to leave 3 kids, 3 dogs, and 2 parents was a bit harder than I had anticipated.  On top of that, SuSu had been torn between a daughter and granddaughter that needed her for a few days.  Thankfully our baby niece is on the mend and getting the care and sleep she needs.  

We have a village of friends and family who stepped in to ease our worries and offer encouragement while we figured out the plans.  One "lucky" family got to care for all three kids all day long...and drove us to the airport too.  It was like showing up at the Uber driver's house so that s/he could not deny you a ride.  Pretty smart, hu?  Our kiddos’ teachers were willing to take our kids home with them if needed.  I joke that my teacher friends are way more qualified to care for my kiddos than I am because they teach and survive a room-full of kids each and every day.  I think their super hero capes are tucked in their shirts.  We even shared our dogs with dear friends too because it seemed like a lot to leave SuSu with.  Hattie is "vacationing" at her amazing foster family's home and Tipper is being spoiled by our dear friends from school.  Matilda is home on guard duty (aka barks at nothing and eats dropped food), which means absolutely nothing has changed for her!  Thanks to the most wonderful SuSu ever, we are now off on an adventure of a lifetime. We will eat more dumplings than we can count.  I will try new foods, but will not eat eyeball soup!  We will ride in a tuk tuk and learn to dodge traffic.  We will see the beautiful people and scenery that God stretched out to the other side of the globe.  I will sleep a lot, but I will also work on our school’s yearbook and my family’s scrapbooks and I will somehow still fit in the bridesmaid’s dress for Wendy’s wedding!  Those are the goals anyway!  If you need us, too bad!  We are on vacation thanks to a company that has gifted us in a way they can't even imagine!

“Many, O Lord my God, are the wonders you have done. The things you 
planned for us no one can recount to you; were I to speak ad tell of them, 
they would be too many to declare.”
Psalm 40:5



Friday, February 1, 2019

Say It Ain't So

Is it true that Samuel is 7?  

If I could freeze time, this is the age I would choose.  Samuel was in fact tearful last night about turning 7.  I thought we were about to have a cry fest...because I wanted to join in.  He's so sweet and fun.  Samuel is reading and full of curiosity.  He loves to dress up and wear costumes of any kind.   He still thinks his Mom and Dad are cool.  We couldn't love him any more than we already do.  

Birthday Morning

The only 7 year old I know who would 
be thrilled with a package of ties!

Birthday cake of his choice: Oreo ice cream cake

Of note, he was not a fan of the trick candles.  
Also, he was out of breath after this picture!


If I could talk to his China Mom and Dad today, I would tell them that Samuel is a joy!  He still talks about them and asks about his nanny.  He knows that I stay in touch with his nanny.  I'd love to tell his first parents that he is hilarious and loves to talk.  This kid never stops talking!  He's a little cranky in the morning, but warms up quickly.  He loves to hug and kiss us.  Samuel is so sweet to his teacher and concerned for his friends.  He can be feisty at times and sometimes takes his brother's toys.  He is literal and takes comments to heart.  If I could choose an animal to describe Samuel, I would choose a monkey.  This kid can hang from any bar and climb any rock/cliff.  I would also thank his parents for choosing life and making an excruciating decision in order to care for their son.  We are loving him the best we can and hope they would be proud of the little guy he is turning into.  Maybe one day we'll meet his first parents, but until then...we are grateful for another birthday to celebrate Samuel.  He's a gift!

"Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him."
Psalm 127:3





Sunday, January 6, 2019

Keep Reminding Me: Priorities in 2019

What's important to you?



We're talking about priorities with our kiddos this year!  Be careful when talking about this with Samuel.  Somehow we ended up talking about the Tower of Babel.  That kid's mind amazes and confuses me!  In case you're wonder, we did talk more about the Tower of Babel after our Priorities discussion.

We have marriage goals and family goals hanging on the side of the refrigerator.  For me personally, these are some of my goals.  My spiritual momma has to remind me of boundaries often.  I only receive 24 hours in a day and time does not slow down.  Fun Fact: limiting the food of my children does not make them grow slower.  I tried.  Once.

This is what happens.  The kids take over the kitchen. 
They all love to cook and help in the kitchen!  

1) Focus more on my little family.  We are trying so hard to teach these kids to make good choices and be responsible.  Also, we want them to know they're important to us.  Fun one-on-one dates with the kids are on the goal list, in addition to husband-wife dates.  We will have a new way of displaying their art work in our home too so that our refrigerator is not discussed as an art display.

My paper calendar wasn't big enough, so I got a bigger one this year!
That's why there's not enough room for all the art work.

2) Focus on extended family.  I'm working on a wall of pictures to display our extended family as well as our friends whom we treat like family.  I'm finally going to put my camera's picture-taking obsession to our walls.  Let's just  say that the Walgreeens guy will not only know my last name, but my first name too!

3) Visit family and friends more (to obtain needed pictures for display at our house).  If I have your address, you might be a "target".  If you live outside of Texas...you are not immune!  I think I proved that a few weeks ago in Arkansas!  If you live nearby, you'll probably want to look out the window before opening your front door...um, from this day forward!

4) I want to send more cards, including catching up on thank you notes.  Some of you lucky folks may receive a thank you note so old that I have no idea the word contents inside.  It's called an "extended thank you" over here!  I even found some addressed envelopes in my closet from previous Christmas cards.  I'm going to use them to send happy mail (not bills)!

5) I hope to use my creativity.  I'm shuffling things around the house and pulling out things that have been hidden in our closet.  Trying to declutter at the same time.  Whoa!  Warning: You may get a gift with your name on it this year.  I hope I have the correct spelling!  I feel like Shutterfly is spying on me.  I'm a sucker for a good deals and they know it!


New cabinet purchased with a coupon and 
hauled by the hubby's new truck!  Still working on 
organizing as you can see by the wreath holder attacked by papers!

6) Be real and honest.  I think I got a head start with our FB Christmas picture! Life can be messy and unorganized...beautiful and full of hope too.  I try to reign it in with my parents' blog since apparently people from other counties are reading that blog (weird).  Who do my parents know in India?  For this blog, I'll make sure to post before and after pictures so everyone can see that our house is not always clean and my family does not always take a "pretty picture".  Personally, I think the silly faces are the best!  Ask the kids at school that I photograph each month for character awards!  Ha!

7) Be silly and fun.  April Fool's is one of my favorite days!  Ask Russ about the joke I played on him pre-kids.  Mention the word CARPET.  He remembers.  As we do our acts of kindness this year, some acts just may be from our April Fool's stash!  Also, you can ask my friends who have received (or will receive) joke gifts for Christmas...including our hilarious friend from the bank and the girls who work at Mom's memory care!

Hold me accountable!  Remind me often.  If you don't receive a fun card this year, send us a Christmas cards next year to make sure we have your correct address.  If I haven't showed up at your house to take a picture, I might be in trouble!  It could mean that my kids have tied me up and you need to come check on me.  Can you bring your phone too so I can make sure we get a picture for the wall...once you get me uptied?  Notice that Facebook is not on my goal list.  I do not have messenger on my phone (on purpose).  If you have an emergency, it's better to send a text.  Make sure your spelling is correct and your language is appropriate because all three kids can read now!  YIKES! I do, however, recommend calling 9-1-1 first because sometimes my phone is on silent!  Just being honest...


He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
    I will be exalted among the nations,
    I will be exalted in the earth.”
Psalm 46:10


Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Extended Christmas and a Fun-Packed Trip

We had a super busy Christmas season with family!  Busy...in a good way!  We had a lot of family time and made the most of our short visit in Arkansas a few days after Christmas.  

A couple years ago we started staying home Christmas day.  We've tried to be intentional with celebrating family and focusing on Jesus' birth.  Not that we don't love our extended family, but we realized that the season was getting so busy that we were losing focus.  Priorities were getting shifted due to distraction.  So, like the previous few years, we celebrated at home.  We did invite a couple fiends to join us, but they had other plans.  Maybe they've just been around us enough to know, that all is not calm at our home.  Between 3 kids and 3 dogs, you just never know what's going happen around here!



We had a quiet morning at home that started with a search for Baby Jesus by starlight (flashlight).  I even made the kids put a square cloth over their heads to be shepherds.  We enjoyed a quiet morning at home talking about Jesus, eating blueberry pancakes for breakfast, and opening gifts. That evening was quite exciting with my parents.  You can see the link to their blog and Christmas miracle update here:

https://texasstells.blogspot.com/2018/12/its-christmas-miracle.html


On 12/26, we went on a train ride thanks to Santa!  He sure knows how to pick good gifts, doesn't he?  We had a fun-filled 5 hours together with no electronics and lots of laughter!

Boarding the train

 
We walked to lunch at this yummy Thai restaurant

Joey and Daddy had a word search competition

Just before we arrived at our last stop

The very next day we left for Arkansas for the Webb Christmas, SuSu's birthday, and family time with the Stells.  Our car pretty much knows it's way around Central Arkansas now.  The number of Stells we crammed in one day is amazing!  I'm going to just post a long list of pictures below.  I keep hearing that a picture is worth a thousand words.  Let's see if that is true!

A visit with Russ' grandmother, Mama Nina

Cohen and SuSu opening his gift

The cousins doing what cousins do

Pearl and our newest niece, Collier

Isaac really loves his horse!

The clones - Big Joe and Russ

The kids with Randy and Diane
The bacon was A-MAZING!

Aunt Mary buried beneath our kiddos!

SuSu's birthday celebration (minus a couple grands)

The kids' bonus grandparents - my Aunt Lucy and Uncle Ping

Courtney and Teresa let us crash their time together.  
The kids loved getting to kick back and just watch tv!

Seeing Paw Paw once we got back from Arkansas

Hoo Hoo let us come visit for a bit when we got back in town

* Somehow Aunt Judy and Uncle Louis escaped my camera.  This time.  I saw what you did there, Aunt Judy.  You shared that fascinating ring miracle as I was walking out. You distracted me to avoid the camera!  Ha!  We did discover a neat feature of Uncle Louis' car key on this trip though.  It just proves that being easily amused runs in the family!  Between that and naps, Uncle Louis and I are practically twins!  

Looking forward to 2019!  If you hear the doorbell ring, you better look through the peep hole.  You may see our crew and try to run out the backdoor.  Chances are we're going to hear you and chase you down for a hug!!!  If you don't see yourself in the pictures above, we're coming for you next time.  I'm gathering more addresses (Matt, that's you now), so don't be surprised if we just show up.  I literally texted Diane, Courtney, and Teresa the day before and invited myself for a visit.  We had a wonderful time in Arkansas.  I'd say we made the most of our 2 1/2 days in Conway!  

If anyone wonders where Tipper stays while we're in Conway, see the picture below.  We have some amazing friends who spoil this antique dog like nothing she's ever known.  There are times that I think Tipper may sneak out one night and go over to their house.  Tipper stays a mile from our house and lives it up with our dear friends!


"God sets the lonely in families..."
Psalm 68:6

I used to think "lonely" meant anyone without a family.  Not true.  We're all 
lonely at some point in our lives, but God sets us in a family...could be a 
neighborhood family, a school family, work family, a church family.
Know who your family is.  And if you ever get lonely, come on over!  I 
promise you won't be lonely here with our crew!