Sunday, January 6, 2019

Keep Reminding Me: Priorities in 2019

What's important to you?



We're talking about priorities with our kiddos this year!  Be careful when talking about this with Samuel.  Somehow we ended up talking about the Tower of Babel.  That kid's mind amazes and confuses me!  In case you're wonder, we did talk more about the Tower of Babel after our Priorities discussion.

We have marriage goals and family goals hanging on the side of the refrigerator.  For me personally, these are some of my goals.  My spiritual momma has to remind me of boundaries often.  I only receive 24 hours in a day and time does not slow down.  Fun Fact: limiting the food of my children does not make them grow slower.  I tried.  Once.

This is what happens.  The kids take over the kitchen. 
They all love to cook and help in the kitchen!  

1) Focus more on my little family.  We are trying so hard to teach these kids to make good choices and be responsible.  Also, we want them to know they're important to us.  Fun one-on-one dates with the kids are on the goal list, in addition to husband-wife dates.  We will have a new way of displaying their art work in our home too so that our refrigerator is not discussed as an art display.

My paper calendar wasn't big enough, so I got a bigger one this year!
That's why there's not enough room for all the art work.

2) Focus on extended family.  I'm working on a wall of pictures to display our extended family as well as our friends whom we treat like family.  I'm finally going to put my camera's picture-taking obsession to our walls.  Let's just  say that the Walgreeens guy will not only know my last name, but my first name too!

3) Visit family and friends more (to obtain needed pictures for display at our house).  If I have your address, you might be a "target".  If you live outside of Texas...you are not immune!  I think I proved that a few weeks ago in Arkansas!  If you live nearby, you'll probably want to look out the window before opening your front door...um, from this day forward!

4) I want to send more cards, including catching up on thank you notes.  Some of you lucky folks may receive a thank you note so old that I have no idea the word contents inside.  It's called an "extended thank you" over here!  I even found some addressed envelopes in my closet from previous Christmas cards.  I'm going to use them to send happy mail (not bills)!

5) I hope to use my creativity.  I'm shuffling things around the house and pulling out things that have been hidden in our closet.  Trying to declutter at the same time.  Whoa!  Warning: You may get a gift with your name on it this year.  I hope I have the correct spelling!  I feel like Shutterfly is spying on me.  I'm a sucker for a good deals and they know it!


New cabinet purchased with a coupon and 
hauled by the hubby's new truck!  Still working on 
organizing as you can see by the wreath holder attacked by papers!

6) Be real and honest.  I think I got a head start with our FB Christmas picture! Life can be messy and unorganized...beautiful and full of hope too.  I try to reign it in with my parents' blog since apparently people from other counties are reading that blog (weird).  Who do my parents know in India?  For this blog, I'll make sure to post before and after pictures so everyone can see that our house is not always clean and my family does not always take a "pretty picture".  Personally, I think the silly faces are the best!  Ask the kids at school that I photograph each month for character awards!  Ha!

7) Be silly and fun.  April Fool's is one of my favorite days!  Ask Russ about the joke I played on him pre-kids.  Mention the word CARPET.  He remembers.  As we do our acts of kindness this year, some acts just may be from our April Fool's stash!  Also, you can ask my friends who have received (or will receive) joke gifts for Christmas...including our hilarious friend from the bank and the girls who work at Mom's memory care!

Hold me accountable!  Remind me often.  If you don't receive a fun card this year, send us a Christmas cards next year to make sure we have your correct address.  If I haven't showed up at your house to take a picture, I might be in trouble!  It could mean that my kids have tied me up and you need to come check on me.  Can you bring your phone too so I can make sure we get a picture for the wall...once you get me uptied?  Notice that Facebook is not on my goal list.  I do not have messenger on my phone (on purpose).  If you have an emergency, it's better to send a text.  Make sure your spelling is correct and your language is appropriate because all three kids can read now!  YIKES! I do, however, recommend calling 9-1-1 first because sometimes my phone is on silent!  Just being honest...


He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
    I will be exalted among the nations,
    I will be exalted in the earth.”
Psalm 46:10


Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Extended Christmas and a Fun-Packed Trip

We had a super busy Christmas season with family!  Busy...in a good way!  We had a lot of family time and made the most of our short visit in Arkansas a few days after Christmas.  

A couple years ago we started staying home Christmas day.  We've tried to be intentional with celebrating family and focusing on Jesus' birth.  Not that we don't love our extended family, but we realized that the season was getting so busy that we were losing focus.  Priorities were getting shifted due to distraction.  So, like the previous few years, we celebrated at home.  We did invite a couple fiends to join us, but they had other plans.  Maybe they've just been around us enough to know, that all is not calm at our home.  Between 3 kids and 3 dogs, you just never know what's going happen around here!



We had a quiet morning at home that started with a search for Baby Jesus by starlight (flashlight).  I even made the kids put a square cloth over their heads to be shepherds.  We enjoyed a quiet morning at home talking about Jesus, eating blueberry pancakes for breakfast, and opening gifts. That evening was quite exciting with my parents.  You can see the link to their blog and Christmas miracle update here:

https://texasstells.blogspot.com/2018/12/its-christmas-miracle.html


On 12/26, we went on a train ride thanks to Santa!  He sure knows how to pick good gifts, doesn't he?  We had a fun-filled 5 hours together with no electronics and lots of laughter!

Boarding the train

 
We walked to lunch at this yummy Thai restaurant

Joey and Daddy had a word search competition

Just before we arrived at our last stop

The very next day we left for Arkansas for the Webb Christmas, SuSu's birthday, and family time with the Stells.  Our car pretty much knows it's way around Central Arkansas now.  The number of Stells we crammed in one day is amazing!  I'm going to just post a long list of pictures below.  I keep hearing that a picture is worth a thousand words.  Let's see if that is true!

A visit with Russ' grandmother, Mama Nina

Cohen and SuSu opening his gift

The cousins doing what cousins do

Pearl and our newest niece, Collier

Isaac really loves his horse!

The clones - Big Joe and Russ

The kids with Randy and Diane
The bacon was A-MAZING!

Aunt Mary buried beneath our kiddos!

SuSu's birthday celebration (minus a couple grands)

The kids' bonus grandparents - my Aunt Lucy and Uncle Ping

Courtney and Teresa let us crash their time together.  
The kids loved getting to kick back and just watch tv!

Seeing Paw Paw once we got back from Arkansas

Hoo Hoo let us come visit for a bit when we got back in town

* Somehow Aunt Judy and Uncle Louis escaped my camera.  This time.  I saw what you did there, Aunt Judy.  You shared that fascinating ring miracle as I was walking out. You distracted me to avoid the camera!  Ha!  We did discover a neat feature of Uncle Louis' car key on this trip though.  It just proves that being easily amused runs in the family!  Between that and naps, Uncle Louis and I are practically twins!  

Looking forward to 2019!  If you hear the doorbell ring, you better look through the peep hole.  You may see our crew and try to run out the backdoor.  Chances are we're going to hear you and chase you down for a hug!!!  If you don't see yourself in the pictures above, we're coming for you next time.  I'm gathering more addresses (Matt, that's you now), so don't be surprised if we just show up.  I literally texted Diane, Courtney, and Teresa the day before and invited myself for a visit.  We had a wonderful time in Arkansas.  I'd say we made the most of our 2 1/2 days in Conway!  

If anyone wonders where Tipper stays while we're in Conway, see the picture below.  We have some amazing friends who spoil this antique dog like nothing she's ever known.  There are times that I think Tipper may sneak out one night and go over to their house.  Tipper stays a mile from our house and lives it up with our dear friends!


"God sets the lonely in families..."
Psalm 68:6

I used to think "lonely" meant anyone without a family.  Not true.  We're all 
lonely at some point in our lives, but God sets us in a family...could be a 
neighborhood family, a school family, work family, a church family.
Know who your family is.  And if you ever get lonely, come on over!  I 
promise you won't be lonely here with our crew!